Monica Huldt — a 37-year-old OnlyFans creator who follows “tradwife” principles — claims she “dedicates” her life to making her husband, John, 39, “happy,” even though that’s meant losing some friends along the way.
“I actually had childhood friends straight out telling me that I’ve lost my dignity as a woman,” Monica told “Love Don’t Judge” in an interview.
A typical day for the Instagram model includes cooking meals for John, cleaning the house and working out — but not picking out her own clothes, as he selects all of her outfits.
“John likes me to dress nicely at home, like sexy-sporty, and he doesn’t like me wearing make-up around the house,” the Scottsdale, Arizona-based Swede told Jam Press. “Some women might not like being told what to do or wear but I love it when he gives me instructions.
“When I deliver, it makes him happy – and in turn that makes me happy,” the real-life “Stepford Wife” reasoned.
While Monica claims that she’s both able to do her chores and fulfill her husband’s needs in the bedroom, he also keeps busy by inviting other women to have sex with him.
“This sleeping with other women thing, first of all, it’s a really small part of our relationship,” John told “Love Don’t Judge.”
“Monica was cool with it, and I was cool with it,” he claimed. “I think it’s a luxury I have that probably most guys watching this wish they had just because of genetic programming.
“If you look at how all other mammals that’s how they do it, typically the alpha gets to bang all other all the females,” John reasoned, adding that their lifestyle makes for a more “relaxed relationship.”
And when it comes to the married couple’s sex life, Monica claimed that her husband being so dominant is a turn-on for her.
“I like it when a man takes charge and takes what he wants,” she told Jame Press. “I am always available for my husband’s needs and I love it. “It’s a turn-on for me so I don’t have any issues with that.
While some might be shocked at Monica’s perceived old-fashioned approach to marriage, she believes many relationships would be happier if more women adopted this way of thinking.
“If people didn’t frown upon it so much and just gave it a go, I think they would realize that it works.”
“People are so unhappy today, always looking for the next exciting thing so why not just embrace who we are, the way we were created? We would have less divorces, and I think overall people would be happier,” she said.
Monica also claimed that John is “super supportive” and never jealous of her OnlyFans career as the couple live in a luxurious house and use her income to travel.
“He helps me with photo editing and coming up with ideas,” Monica said of John’s involvement in her career. “I might be a housewife but we are a team.”
The couple currently does not have any children, but when they do, Monica says she plans to raise them “traditionally.”
“If we have a girl, I’ll teach her everything I know on how to be a good wife, and my husband will do the same with our son,” she told Jam Press.
“I believe that just because a woman chooses to be a trad wife, it doesn’t make her weak. In fact, the opposite – it takes strength to defy the norm in today’s society,” Monica added.